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Honouring Loved Ones

Cheryl Warry • May 20, 2021

Keeping Memories Alive In A Wedding

It goes without saying that a wedding ceremony can be highly emotional however, this emotion can be taken to a whole different level when someone very special is missing from your special day.


'Missing' could be due to the loss of a loved one or due to circumstances such as Covid restrictions that is preventing a loved one from being physically present.


There are many different ways to honour that person or persons, it is an entirely personal choice.

My own daughter-in-law carried miniature framed photos (pictured here) of grandparents - both hers and her grooms, attached to her bouquet.


Other suggestions can be subtle or more stated such as;

  • Stage a memorial table which could include large framed photos.
  • A vacant chair with a familiar item, words not required.
  • A candle lit by the bride and groom and allowed to burn throughout the ceremony.
  • A family heirloom such as Grandpas's handkerchief could be the pocket square for the groom
  • Or a special necklace or bracelet worn by the bride.


There are no rules or restrictions about how to honour a loved one so the options are limited only by your imagination! 

 

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