Getting married doesn't have to mean planning a huge wedding with hundreds of guests.

For many couples, the priority is simply becoming legally married. Whether you're planning a destination wedding later, organising a larger celebration in the future or just prefer to keep things simple, there are several ways to get married in Victoria.

One of the questions I'm asked most often is:

"What's the difference between getting married at the Registry Office and having a Marriage Celebrant?"

Here's what you need to know.

Can We Just Sign the Marriage Papers?

This is probably the biggest misconception. In Australia, there isn't a process where you simply "sign the papers."

To be legally married, a marriage ceremony must take place. It can be incredibly short and simple, three minutes to be precise, but it must include the legal wording required under Australian law and be conducted by an authorised Marriage Celebrant or at the Registry Office. Even if you don't want personal vows, readings or a personalised ceremony, you'll still have a legal ceremony.

Is a Registry Office Cheaper?

It depends on what you're looking for.

A Registry Office provides a straightforward legal ceremony at a set location and time.

A celebrant, however, offers flexibility. You can be married at your home, in your garden, at your favourite winery, on your family farm, beside a river or almost anywhere that's meaningful to you. Many celebrants, including me, also offer a Simple Wedding package designed specifically for couples who want to keep things relaxed, brief, affordable and uncomplicated while still choosing their own location.

Can We Get Married at Home?

Absolutely. Some of the most beautiful ceremonies I've conducted have taken place in people's backyards, on family properties and in private gardens; I've conducted many ceremonies in my own back garden with my horses getting in on the action.

If having your closest family around you feels more meaningful than a formal venue, that's completely possible.

Do We Only Need Two Witnesses?

Yes. Australian law requires two witnesses who are both over 18 years of age. Beyond that, your guest list is entirely up to you.

Some couples invite just their witnesses, while others include immediate family or a small group of close friends.

Can We Celebrate Overseas Later?

Yes. Many couples choose to complete the legal side of their marriage in Australia before travelling overseas for a symbolic destination wedding or celebration. This can make overseas planning much simpler while ensuring all the legal requirements have already been completed.

Can We Get Legally Married Before Our Destination Wedding?

Definitely. This has become increasingly popular.  I've even conducted legal ceremonies in the car park at Tullamarine airport just before boarding flights for their destination 'faux' wedding. Your legal marriage can take place in Australia with a simple ceremony, allowing your overseas celebration to focus entirely on enjoying the experience with family and friends without worrying about legal paperwork in another country.

Which Option Is Right for You?

There's no right or wrong answer. A Registry Office may suit couples who simply want a legal ceremony at a government venue.

A celebrant offers far more flexibility if you'd like to choose your own location, include a handful of personal touches or celebrate somewhere that's special to you. Whether it's your home, a local park, a winery in North East Victoria or your favourite family property, your ceremony can still be simple while feeling personal.

Thinking About a Simple Wedding?

If you're looking for a relaxed, uncomplicated way to get married in Wangaratta or anywhere across North East Victoria, I'd love to help. My Simple Wedding package is designed for couples who want all the legal requirements taken care of without the stress of planning a large wedding. You'll have the freedom to choose a location that means something to you, while I guide you through every legal step and make sure everything is completed correctly.